SubMom: We’re being tough on you right now because we love you and believe in you so much that we won’t let you not believe in yourself.
Girl: Why? Why are there so many things wrong with me? My body doesn’t work right!
Us: It works fine. There is nothing “wrong” with you.
Girl: But why do I have to do all this? Why me? Why? (cue whine & tears.)
SubHub: You do not get to play victim here. You are not a victim. If you walk around trying to act like one, people will treat you like one, and you won’t like it. If you want people to treat you like the strong person you are, act like it. You are not weak. Don’t act like you are. Everyone has stuff wrong with them, and I mean EVERYONE. Not just you.